BEST Way To Approach A Girl at a Restaurant (INFIELD)How To Pick Up Girls

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Hey, Matt Artisan here from The Attractive Man and I'm showing you this approach because this is a situation that most guys would never do. A girl that's sitting in a restaurant, eating and has food in her mouth as I walk up to her and approach her. But here's the deal, when you do an approach that seems more difficult, the girl tends to like you and be attracted to you even more because she knows that it took a lot of balls, a lot of courage to put yourself in that awkward situation. Doesn't always happen some girls are like too awkward or too shy but oftentimes you'll get more attraction from the girl in what seems like a harder to approach situation.

The key though is that you have to acknowledge the situation or acknowledge the reality or else it just comes off a little rude that you're interrupting her while she's in the middle of doing something. So you have to say "Hey, I know you're eating and I know it's kind of rude" and when you do that you're acknowledging it and you're owning the fact that you're doing it, therefore it's not a big deal anymore. So, let's see what happens. So there she gave me a logical answer, saying she moved from one place to another place.

Now you could ask another logical question back like "Where in New York did you live?" Or "where in L.A. Do you live now?" Or "how long have you been here?" But that takes the conversation nowhere. It's better to ask an emotional question like "What do you love about it here?" Or "why did you do that? What inspired you to do that?" And what's even better than that is to make a comment that's emotional, talking about the feelings behind it, right? I talked about how that could be kind of scary. And what's also great is to assume the motivation or qualities that she had that might have motivated her to do it.

So I said "Oh, you must be very adventurous I like that" right? You want to show appreciation on things other than her looks. It's like her looks just got your foot in the door, that's what caused you to go say hi to her, now she has to win you over by talking about her herself and hopefully winning you over by showing that she has some cool qualities. And then you want to show appreciation for those qualities. That works really well.

Because she's comfortable she's relaxed, she's sitting and you're standing. You're less comfortable. So if you want to go longer than two minutes, if you want to have a, if you think things are going really well and you want to have you know five-minute interaction, don't be standing the whole time. Sit down.

I. Didn't really want to sit down. I wanted to let her finish eating her burrito, you know I wanted to go do some more approaches, so I kept it short. It's up to you.

You have to use your own discretion. If you think you can make the interaction better and kind of have like an instant date right then and there, then by all means sit down with her. But if, even if she's not giving you the best response, as long as she's not like doing this like get away from me or shooing or saying "I have a boyfriend" you know or saying "please leave" then keep going at least have you know one to two-minute interaction and go for the Facebook or the phone number. Because I've had so many interactions where the girl was kind of neutral or even didn't even seem that into it but I still got her phone number or her facebook and then we ended up meeting up later.

And then I've also had interactions where the girl seems really really into it and I'm thinking "wow that was solid, we're definitely going to meet up" and it never happens so Now listen up. Because if you want to be able to approach beautiful women in any situation without hesitation, fear or nervousness and eliminate your approach anxiety fast, then I have good news because I've put together a free confidence training where I reveal a simple technique that you can do in a matter of seconds to eliminate fear. Just click the link down in the description and i'll send you that training. There's also a link to the right of the screen so check that out right now.

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